Going to weddings makes me want to go back to my wedding day. Well maybe not the day of... but the day after, when we left for our honeymoon. And definately not the day before, when you're anxious and nervous and feel like you needed more time to tie all the loose ends.
Weddings are actually quite stressful for the bride and groom. There are timelines to meet all day. Hair and makeup appointments, get to the church on time, rush through pictures to get to the reception, to get introduced as Mr and Mrs., to dance the first dance, to greet all the guests, to cut the cake, to toss the bouquet. And inevitably not everything goes according to plan. The DJ's car breaks down and is late to the reception, or the photographer goes to the wrong place.
It's really all the guests who enjoy the wedding. They eat, dance, laugh at the relative who had a little too much to drink. And every wedding has one of these... the funny dancer who has no idea he's the funny dancer.
I got to enjoy a little bit of what the guests enjoyed since I was one of them. But as the matron of honor I was there for my cousin Estee throughout her day and I was also reminded of how stressful that day can be. After the church and pictures they were running about an hour behind "schedule". Her photographer made it but the DJ called during the ceremony and told me he had broken down and was being towed to the car shop. So he sent another DJ two hours late! Then he didn't have thier song for the first dance. The grooms parents got lost on their way to the reception. The bride got sick.
You might think this sounds horrible, but anyone who has ever had a wedding can relate. In reality the wedding was wonderful. And no one probably noticed any of those details that the bride had spent months planning. First of all, she looked beautiful. The ceremony was meaningful and quite short. The reception was stunning. It was at a private clubhouse, Spanish in architecture with a fountain and a beautiful rod iron gate at the entrance. Two fireplaces flanking the dance floor on either side. Candles and flowers on the tables. They danced to "Sabor A Mi" and no one knew it wasn't "their song". It was a fun crowd on the dance floor and I really had a good time. When Estee and Cookie left we all line up on two sides and lit up those firecracker sticks and they ran out waving good-bye.
I don't have any wedding pictures yet, but here are a few of their engagement pictures.
